sometimes I think about the time I fell asleep on my arm so it was completely numb, and I woke up in the middle of the night and thought there was somebody else’s arm in my bed and I screamed and bit it and fell out of bed before I realized I just freaked out over, and bit, myself
YO I TOTALLY FORGOT UNTIL JUST NOW BUT I HAD THIS PRETTY COOL DREAM
why are parents allowed to yell and scream at their children and call them names and just make them feel like shit in general…
but when kids try to defend themselves…. its disrespectful?
ok but no
parents are allowed to yell when you are doing something wrong and they’ve tried to explain it to you but you don’t get it and they just need you to stop doing it until they can get you to understand, or you understand but disregard it, because your kid-brain is still young and squishy and still forming those wrinkles. ESCPECIALLY if you understand but intentionally disregard them. And yeah, it sucks to be yelled at and you feel like shit for a while, but you learn what you can and can’t do and the sensation of feeling like shit passes, and if your parents aren’t fuckwads they come to you and say “do you know why I yelled at you and why what you did was wrong? ok let me explain it to you.”
Parents SHOULD NOT be calling their kids names. If your parents are doing that, that is anENTIRELY DIFFERENT ISSUE that has NOTHING to do with disciplinary yelling and everything to do with them being kind of an apparently shitty person